Annoyance

[sillygoosegirl]

The good thing about a certain person dissing on me to Josh, instead of on Josh to me as usual, is that I don't have to pretend not to be annoyed any more. On the down side, it means she is pissed off at me, but I would have tried to piss her off earlier if I'd though it might get her to be nice to Josh.

So how do you like being referred to like this anyhow?

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Since you asked...

[zixi.livejournal.com]

Josh and I don't always get along very well. I know this. You know this. From what you've said, he knows this. I try to be friendly with him cause I want to. Sometimes it works, and when it does I enjoy spending time with him. Sometimes it doesn't. Regardless, he gets under my skin faster then most people, for no real good reason.
Since the semester started you have viciously insulted or snubbed me several times, carrying on a habit you've had for at least a year. In general, I try to let most of these pass by, because I want to value our friendship above words said presumably without thought. However, the last few weeks have felt more vicious and directed more consciously towards me then in the past.
Being insulted hurts. It also builds up a fair bit of aggravation which I have kept inside because I didn't want to blow up at you.
Something Josh said bit right into that pocket of aggravation. I reacted, attempting to keep cool...but not completely succeeding.
Later, I realized I had been taking out my annoyance at you and Matt (he has also recently said some things that were very insulting in the same genre) on Josh and realized that wasn't fair, so I apoligized to him. I also explained why because I know personally I like apoligies to include explanations.
I'm not pissed off. I'm annoyed and frustrated and worn a little thin...but...well...I tend to give people too many chances. And having put up with this for a year, I'm not likely to suddenly end a friendship on it. I certainly don't like it, but there are enough things I do like about you that I can mostly forget about it.
However, you do seem to be pissed off. And since in the past you have also seemed to tend to be incapable of forgiveness, I suppose what happens next is your decision.

But to directly respond to your post:
1) You have "pissed me off" several times already in the past. This is the first time that I directed my aggravation towards Josh, likely because it was also the first time he did/said something related to the thing which "pissed me off." All other problems I've had with him seem to me to be mostly a clash of personalities.
2) How do I like being referred to like this? From you? I'm kinda used to it. I can't say I like it, but I am used to it.

Re: Since you asked...

[camlost.livejournal.com]

Since the semester started you have viciously insulted or snubbed me several times, carrying on a habit you've had for at least a year. In general, I try to let most of these pass by, because I want to value our friendship above words said presumably without thought. However, the last few weeks have felt more vicious and directed more consciously towards me then in the past.
Being insulted hurts. It also builds up a fair bit of aggravation which I have kept inside because I didn't want to blow up at you.

You've certainly ticked her off plenty. Trust me. You have a strong tendency to like things YOUR way. As in YOUR way or the highway. That sort of attitude wears real thin real fast. You also like to "forget" things and ignore conveniently and skew the rest. Do you know who the messy one was last year (and this one, from what I've heard?) I'll give ya a hint. It ain't Mary. People can change. Maybe she was the messy one your freshman year. Maybe I was lazy your sophmore year. Things change. If you don't recognize this, it's frustrating. And stop competing with her so much.

Joshua

Re: Since you asked...

[(Anonymous)]

Can't we all just get along? :o)

Re: Since you asked...

[sillygoosegirl.livejournal.com]

1) You have "pissed me off" several times already in the past. This is the first time that I directed my aggravation towards Josh, likely because it was also the first time he did/said something related to the thing which "pissed me off." All other problems I've had with him seem to me to be mostly a clash of personalities.

Please tell me that there is something that pisses you off that both Matt and I do which isn't simply living happily in a different building than you. 'Cause as far as I can tell, that's all it is. And you're right, I do have little patients for people who find my happiness insulting, so I hope you've got something else to be upset with me about.

If you are jealous, then I am really sorry, but there might still be singles open here too, and regardless there is room in the South community. But I don't think jealousy is the problem here.

2) How do I like being referred to like this? From you? I'm kinda used to it. I can't say I like it, but I am used to it.

Well, that's a surprise. I don't intend to do so. I originally had that entry written with your name all over it, but went back and removed it because you often refer to me that way in LJ when you are upset with me. I'm not aware of doing it in person unless I wish to implicate a number of people, sometimes including you. Maybe I've said things I shouldn't have said and don't remember. Maybe you've assumed I'm referring to you when I am not. Probably both.

I honestly have no idea what I have been doing for a year that has been insulting you. And I realize that that itself could be considered insulting, but it is true. I may or may not be sorry for whatever it is, but I am sorry that you are insulted by it.